In the weeks since I found out I am fruit intolerant, I’ve had a lot of explaining to do, and it’s been tough. I don’t know about you, but when I say I can’t eat fruit and say that includes avocados and cashews and nutmeg people look at me funny, like I don’t know what constitutes fruit. Yes, I know tomato is technically a fruit, but yes, I can eat it (though not all Fruities can). No, I’m not allergic to nuts, but it’s on the list. On and on and on.
I think I’ve got it figured out. Here’s what I’ve been telling people:
If it grows on a tree (including bark), a bush, or a vine, I can’t have it. If it’s made from or with anything that grows on a tree (including bark), a bush, or a vine, I can’t have it.
And then I can talk about what that includes, like different vinegars, cashews (which, technically are a fruit, I think), nutmeg, etc., and how no, I can’t replace vinegar with orange or lemon juice in my salad dressing. Is it completely accurate? Maybe not, but it’s a heck of a lot easier for explaining things. A round of yeah, but what about (insert fruit here) is totally trumped by the tree/bush/vine thing every time.
Don’t do it, little birdy!
I’ve got this exact same problem. I’ve had the issue since puberty. It’s really frustrating. I love fruit but every time I eat it I get sick.
I just found out I have the same intolerance. The explaining to other people is the hardest part. And I’m sure everyone hates going out to dinner with “that person.” It doesn’t bother me to ask the waiter lots of questions and promise a good tip, but it never fails to draw a comment from someone else at the table. 😛 I look forward to using your blog as a resource! Since there’s so little info on the web about this one.
Brittany, welcome! I’m so sorry it took me this long to reply! I never got a notification that there was a comment and I just didn’t see it. I feel your pain. The stares and questions. It’s ridiculous. I hope I can be a good resource for you. xo